By Andy Valencia
In the ancient monastic tradition, monks would spend the 40 days leading up to Easter (which they called “Pascha”) out in the desert praying. Some would not come back, the victim of animals, accidents, starvation, or illness. On the eve of their departure, they would gather to make peace with their brethren. Each monk, in turn with each other monk, would face them, bow, and ask pardon for any offenses they had committed. The receiving monk would answer, “God forgives you, and I forgive you.” That monk in turn would ask pardon, and then they would share a ritual triple embrace: left-right-left.
For the first time in my life, I participated in this ritual of forgiveness – it was quite an experience. Each remembered outrage you carry is a double burden: for you to hold it, and for the target to have it held against them. It’s hard to describe the liberation of formally leaving this weight behind.
The conception of God varies. For some, it’s the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit. For others, the God who encountered Moses. It may be the Great Intellect, or the Universal Sublime Light. Buddhists have been known to say that their God is so great, he doesn’t need to exist.
However you perceive the universe, I hope you’ll accept my apology for anything I’ve said or written which pained you. In turn, as we all head towards Easter, or Pascha, or Spring – I hope you’ll consider how you can enter these brightening days with a lighter heart. Peace be with you.
